Video Overview
In this personal account, the speaker recalls working in Taiwan while returning to the United States for one week about every month and a half to see his five-year-old daughter. Her joy when he came home—and her distress whenever he left—left him with lasting guilt and sadness. He says that experience later became a major reason for leaving the company and retiring early at the height of his career. During more than four years apart, he set aside time each day to call her, chat through Yahoo Messenger, play games together, and read bedtime stories from matching books kept in both locations. These choices and reflections are presented as the speaker's own experience and perspective.
Key Takeaways
- The speaker says his company responsibilities required frequent travel between Taiwan and the United States, while each departure from his daughter caused visible distress and left him feeling guilty.
- He identifies the prolonged separation from his young daughter as a major reason he later left the company and retired early at the peak of his career.
- During more than four years of working away from home, he maintained daily contact through calls, online chats, shared games, and bedtime stories.
Chapters
About 00:00:03 · Choosing between work and time together
The speaker recalls regularly returning to the United States from Taiwan and the emotional difficulty that each new departure created for both father and daughter.
About 00:00:55 · How guilt shaped a career decision
The guilt and sadness accumulated during years apart from his young daughter became an important factor in his eventual decision to leave the company and retire early.
About 00:01:21 · Maintaining a daily connection
He explains how scheduled calls, online chats, games, and storytelling helped him remain involved in his daughter's daily life while they lived in different countries.
Related Topics
overseas work and family, parent-child connection, career and family tradeoffs, long-distance parenting, reasons for early retirement
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